Picture framed in a Chinese home

Picture Taking in China

by Michael Tieso on July 5, 2010

I’m on a sleeper train ride from Chengdu to Kunming with three other backpackers for over eighteen hours. Were casually playing card games near our beds when a group of five Chinese men approach us. Clueless as to what they want, they nervously take a camera out and in hand gestures politely ask for pictures with us. I couldn’t understand as to why they would want pictures with complete strangers. Each picture taken is followed with laughter and peace signs. Have they mistaken us for a celebrity? This is hilarious. My friend takes out a bag of potato chips and one of the Chinese men points to it. The Chinese man gestures his hand toward his face rubbing his eyes like a crying baby and then lowers his hand for something short. Since the package is in all Chinese, my friend had no idea what he was eating were for kids. It made for a burst of laughter heard throughout the entire train cart.

The Chinese group pulls out a bag of various fruits and vegetables and insists we eat with them. Their kindness is overwhelming. An opened water bottle is pulled out and poured into a small cup. How strange to pour water into a small cup I thought. I’m handed the cup and I take a quick hard sniff of what it is. At first I had thought they were trying to kill me with paint thinner or rubbing alcohol but a cup is handed to the entire group including themselves so if I’m going down, they are coming with me. I’m trying to avoid sniffing the gagging smell as I take the shot. Not a pleasant tasting experience but it’d be rude to say no when were handed even more. I later learned what we had was called Baijiu and may have been homegrown alcohol.

Tibet - People

Tibet - People by yewco

This wasn’t the first time this has happened to me throughout China. I’ve been approached several times for a picture with complete strangers that lead to more conversations, many that had never met a foreigner before. In the United States, I’m a regular guy but in China – I’m a celebrity. Don’t think I’ll be approached by anyone wanting to touch my hair or take a picture of me walking down the streets in the United States. I can’t help but imagine myself picture framed in a Chinese home.

Have you ever been approached for a picture in a foreign country? How did they ask you?

  • http://twenty-somethingtravel.com Stephanie

    I've never been asked for a picture (yet) but I have met some of the most interesting local people on train rides. Even with a language barrier between us people are always interested to know where I'm from, where I'm going and maybe share a few snacks. I like this post because it's such a great reminder of how welcoming people everywhere can really be.

  • Federico – maitravelsite

    Hi Michael!

    It has happenned to me as well, in Bali, Thailand and Taiwan. These are always great moments because you get to interact with locals or travelers of that area with being pushy! Nice post and great picture

    Federico

  • http://www.MyBeautifulAdventures.com/ GlobalButterfly

    I wrote a similar post about my experience with people asking to take their picture with me here: http://mybeautifuladventures.com/2010/05/05/ind.... Except I was in India, not China. However, when I was in China I was asked on many occasion and my hair was pulled on many occasion as well. :)

  • http://www.artofbackpacking.com Michael (ArtofBackpacking.com)

    Haha too funny. Never know, you just might find yourself on a Christmas card!

  • everywhereist

    Love it – never have I been approached for a photo (though I've never been to Asia, either, and I wonder if there's a connection), though a good friend of mine was stopped on a daily basis during her last trip to Japan. Everyone wanted photos of her 1-year-old (who is, arguably, one of the cutest kids, ever). She was a good sport about the whole thing, even though she admitted that it got a little daunting.

  • http://www.artofbackpacking.com Michael (ArtofBackpacking.com)

    Thanks Federico!

  • q8travelbud

    nice blog btw…I heard from people who when to China that they've also been stopped and photographed with … how are the trains over there …. I am planning a trip (part of it in china) and I figuered trains would be cheaper than flights?

  • http://www.artofbackpacking.com Michael (ArtofBackpacking.com)

    The trains are fantastic. It's much much cheaper than flights. The system isn't that hard to get around either. Usually the place you stay at can take care of it for you and even deliver the ticket to you. The beds are very good and you'll meet some very nice folks on the train. Highly recommend them. You get on the train, sleep, and suddenly you're in a new city. Save on looking for a place to sleep and you get into a new city!

  • http://www.artofbackpacking.com Michael (ArtofBackpacking.com)

    I can't imagine how much attention a baby would get especially in Japan. I did have a few strange pictures taken of me in the most random moments sometimes without even warning me.

  • http://www.artofbackpacking.com Michael (ArtofBackpacking.com)

    The trains are fantastic. It's much much cheaper than flights. The system isn't that hard to get around either. Usually the place you stay at can take care of it for you and even deliver the ticket to you. The beds are very good and you'll meet some very nice folks on the train. Highly recommend them. You get on the train, sleep, and suddenly you're in a new city. Save on looking for a place to sleep and you get into a new city!

  • http://www.artofbackpacking.com Michael (ArtofBackpacking.com)

    I can't imagine how much attention a baby would get especially in Japan. I did have a few strange pictures taken of me in the most random moments sometimes without even warning me.

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